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July 14, 2013

Chill Time with My Sister!

I am so happy that my sister is coming from Ohio to hang out with me for a week! Her two kids are coming along too, so DD1 is very excited about having the opportunity to spend time with her cousins. We might be planning to go out of town, but we are just thinking about it.

As requested by my dear sister, I asked a Malay auntie to prepare Beef Rendang (coconut beef curry) and Mee Robus (noodle in curry gravy). Hopefully it will be ready by the time they get here.

I can't wait to show my dear sister our new chicks and quails! And I am so glad that she is going to prepare a year's stock of kimchee for me. We're going to have a party!

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July 05, 2013

中華民俗藝術-茶藝

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June 27, 2013

Paul Staments: 6 ways mushrooms can save the world

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Mark Bittman: What's wrong with what we eat

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June 21, 2013

To The Playmobil!


My first memory of sharing a play set with my siblings is the vintage collection of dashing medieval knights from Playmobil.  The above set titled "Playmobil Vintage Knight Special Deluxe Set (1303)" is the exact set that I remember from my childhood and I found it on Amazon. (No, my dear twin sister, I am not crazy enough to spent a hefty $150 for it! And thanks for always snatching my favorite handsome knight away from me!)

Back in the late 1970s, my parents bought this set for the four of us to share. The main reason that I really liked this play set is because all the knights got to sit on the same table and have meals together, which kind of mirrored our family tradition of eating together at the same table. The guys seemed to have a real sense of comradeship and enjoyed each other's company. After a hard day of jousting and fighting off enemies, the best time of the evening is to have some "imaginary" hot stew and drinks with your pals before bedtime!

I don't remember whether my parents gave this toy set away or we lost them when we moved, but I plan to get a similar set and create some medieval memories with my own kids during this summer. This time, Dora the Explorer and Lego figures can join in the fun!

Playmobil Trivia: The largest Playmobil® display consists of 68,808 figurines and was achieved by Aesclick, The Spanish Association of collectibles of Playmobil (Spain), in Barbastro, Spain on 26 September 2010.

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June 15, 2013

My secret counselor

When I decided to take on the responsibility of teaching, I told my dear twin sister that I would count on her as my counselor and adviser.  I am very blessed to have her stay by the phone every time I needed her honest and blunt feedback on how I should balance work and home.

I don't think that I survive my first year of teaching this well if it had not been for her. She helped me to clarify my thoughts, reinforce my self-confidence, and supported me emotionally to carry on till the last day of school.

So, this summer, I will honor my dear sister by spending quality time with my children. I am trying to work out a plan to get husband to bring us to visit her and her family in Ohio. Allah SWT willing, I would love to enjoy her children's company and dig into her garden!

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October 06, 2012

Blogging by DD1

This morning, I created a blog for DD1 to write about her thoughts on life, growing up, and the world around her.

I thought about the name and decided on 'My Curiosity Journal' http://mycuriosityjournal.blogspot.com/

When I told her about it, she was quite excited to be able to let the world know more about her. I also modeled how to post blogs correctly.

Allah SWT willing, I hope it'll help her learn more about self-reflection through writing.

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September 07, 2012

Structured Procrastination

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``. . . anyone can do any amount of work, provided it isn't the work he is supposed to be doing at that moment." -- Robert Benchley, in Chips off the Old Benchley, 1949

I have been intending to write this essay for months. Why am I finally doing it? Because I finally found some uncommitted time? Wrong. I have papers to grade, textbook orders to fill out, an NSF proposal to referee, dissertation drafts to read. I am working on this essay as a way of not doing all of those things. This is the essence of what I call structured procrastination, an amazing strategy I have discovered that converts procrastinators into effective human beings, respected and admired for all that they can accomplish and the good use they make of time. All procrastinators put off things they have to do. Structured procrastination is the art of making this bad trait work for you. The key idea is that procrastinating does not mean doing absolutely nothing. Procrastinators seldom do absolutely nothing; they do marginally useful things, like gardening or sharpening pencils or making a diagram of how they will reorganize their files when they get around to it. Why does the procrastinator do these things? Because they are a way of not doing something more important. If all the procrastinator had left to do was to sharpen some pencils, no force on earth could get him do it. However, the procrastinator can be motivated to do difficult, timely and important tasks, as long as these tasks are a way of not doing something more important.

Structured procrastination means shaping the structure of the tasks one has to do in a way that exploits this fact. The list of tasks one has in mind will be ordered by importance. Tasks that seem most urgent and important are on top. But there are also worthwhile tasks to perform lower down on the list. Doing these tasks becomes a way of not doing the things higher up on the list. With this sort of appropriate task structure, the procrastinator becomes a useful citizen. Indeed, the procrastinator can even acquire, as I have, a reputation for getting a lot done.

The most perfect situation for structured procrastination that I ever had was when my wife and I served as Resident Fellows in Soto House, a Stanford dormitory. In the evening, faced with papers to grade, lectures to prepare, committee work to be done, I would leave our cottage next to the dorm and go over to the lounge and play ping-pong with the residents, or talk over things with them in their rooms, or just sit there and read the paper. I got a reputation for being a terrific Resident Fellow, and one of the rare profs on campus who spent time with undergraduates and got to know them. What a set up: play ping pong as a way of not doing more important things, and get a reputation as Mr. Chips.

Procrastinators often follow exactly the wrong tack. They try to minimize their commitments, assuming that if they have only a few things to do, they will quit procrastinating and get them done. But this goes contrary to the basic nature of the procrastinator and destroys his most important source of motivation. The few tasks on his list will be by definition the most important, and the only way to avoid doing them will be to do nothing. This is a way to become a couch potato, not an effective human being.

At this point you may be asking, "How about the important tasks at the top of the list, that one never does?" Admittedly, there is a potential problem here.

The trick is to pick the right sorts of projects for the top of the list. The ideal sorts of things have two characteristics, First, they seem to have clear deadlines (but really don't). Second, they seem awfully important (but really aren't). Luckily, life abounds with such tasks. In universities the vast majority of tasks fall into this category, and I'm sure the same is true for most other large institutions. Take for example the item right at the top of my list right now. This is finishing an essay for a volume in the philosophy of language. It was supposed to be done eleven months ago. I have accomplished an enormous number of important things as a way of not working on it. A couple of months ago, bothered by guilt, I wrote a letter to the editor saying how sorry I was to be so late and expressing my good intentions to get to work. Writing the letter was, of course, a way of not working on the article. It turned out that I really wasn't much further behind schedule than anyone else. And how important is this article anyway? Not so important that at some point something that seems more important won't come along. Then I'll get to work on it.

Another example is book order forms. I write this in June. In October, I will teach a class on Epistemology. The book order forms are already overdue at the book store. It is easy to take this as an important task with a pressing deadline (for you non-procrastinators, I will observe that deadlines really start to press a week or two after they pass.) I get almost daily reminders from the department secretary, students sometimes ask me what we will be reading, and the unfilled order form sits right in the middle of my desk, right under the wrapping from the sandwich I ate last Wednesday. This task is near the top of my list; it bothers me, and motivates me to do other useful but superficially less important things. But in fact, the book store is plenty busy with forms already filed by non-procrastinators. I can get mine in mid-Summer and things will be fine. I just need to order popular well-known books from efficient publishers. I will accept some other, apparently more important, task sometime between now and, say, August 1st. Then my psyche will feel comfortable about filling out the order forms as a way of not doing this new task.

The observant reader may feel at this point that structured procrastination requires a certain amount of self-deception, since one is in effect constantly perpetrating a pyramid scheme on oneself. Exactly. One needs to be able to recognize and commit oneself to tasks with inflated importance and unreal deadlines, while making oneself feel that they are important and urgent. This is not a problem, because virtually all procrastinators have excellent self-deceptive skills also. And what could be more noble than using one character flaw to offset the bad effects of another?

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August 04, 2012

Article: Lentil

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Lentil

E.S. Oplinger1, L.L. Hardman2, A.R. Kaminski1, K.A. Kelling1, and J.D. Doll1
1Departments of Agronomy and Soil Science, College of Agricultural and Life Sciences and Cooperative Extension Service, University of Wisconsin-Madison, WI 53706.
2Department of Agronomy and Plant Genetics, University of Minnesota, St. Paul, MN 55108. May, 1990.

I. History:

Lentil (Lens culinaris Medik.) may have been one of the first agricultural crops grown more than 8,500 years ago. Production of this cool season annual crop spread from the Near East to the Mediterranean area, Asia, Europe and finally the Western Hemisphere. It may have been introduced to the United States in the early 1900s. The crop has received little research attention to improve its yield and quality. It grows well in limited rainfall areas of the world.
Lentil is a pulse (grain legume) crop. In North America much of the acreage is in eastern Washington, northern Idaho, and western Canada where drier growing season conditions prevail. It has been grown in that area since the 1930s as a rotation crop with wheat. Most of the lentil production in the United States and Canada is exported, but domestic consumption is increasing.

II. Uses:

Lentil is a protein/calorie crop. Protein content ranges from 22 to 35%, but the nutritional value is low because lentil is deficient in the amino acids methionine and cystine. Lentil is an excellent supplement to cereal grain diets because of its good protein/carbohydrate content. It is used in soups, stews, casseroles and salad dishes. Sometimes they are difficult to cook because of the hard seed coat that results from excessively dry production conditions.
Lentils which fail to meet food grade standards (graded #3 or below) can be used as livestock feed because of their high protein content and lack of digestive inhibitors.
Lentil can be used as a green manure crop and one particular Canadian variety, Indianhead, provides a large amount of fixed nitrogen (estimated to be 20 lb/acre).

III. Growth Habits:

Lentil plants are slender, semi-erect annuals with compound leaves (4 to 7 pairs of leaflets) with a tendril at the tips. Plants normally range from 12 to 20 in. tall, the taller plants resulting from cool growing season temperatures, good moisture and good fertility. Plants can have single stems or many branches depending upon the population in the field.
Flowering begins on the lowest branches, gradually moving up the plant and continuing until harvest. Each flower produces a short pod containing one or two lens-shaped seeds. Flowers can be white, lilac or pale blue in color and are self-pollinated. At maturity plants tend to lodge because of their weak stems.
Lentil produced in North America has larger seeds than that from India and the Near East. The seeds (2 to 7 mm in diameter) come in colors of tan, brown, or black, and some varieties produce purple or black mottled seeds. Lentil seed number varies from 15,600 to 100,000 seeds/lb.

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Article: Growing up with chickens: 5 things city kids learn by keeping a backyard flock

All kids who visited our backyard chickens love to hang out around the chickens and look out for the rare opportunity to find a freshly laid egg in the chicken coop or compost bin. This article reinforces my belief to raise backyard chickens for the benefit of the next generation. Allah SWT willing I will continue to keep live chickens as long as possible.

'I would love to raise my kids on a farm. For a lot of reasons, that’s not going to happen. Like the majority of Americans I’m tethered to the city. But that doesn’t mean my children (9, 7, and 5 years old) can’t learn some of the lessons that farm kids take for granted.

Enter chickens.

Turns out a small flock of hens in the backyard can go a long way towards exposing children to things most city dwellers only get to read about in books. The concepts of natural cycles, environmental stewardship, biology, and our place in nature are no longer abstractions for my kids. Thanks to a small coop and a few chickens, these types of things have become concrete realities.
In particular, their feathered teachers have taught them five key lessons:

1. Where their food really comes from

2. Natural cycles

3. Our dependence on the countryside

4. How to treat each other

5. Life and death
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Read the whole article here.

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August 03, 2012

Article: Behind the Scenes with Aldi Supermarket

I am becoming an Aldi fan after getting hooked on the amazing low prices.

'This past week I got the unique opportunity to step behind the scenes and find out more about Aldi Supermarket and the products that they offer their customer. As a longtime fan of the grocery retailer, I could not wait to see how this company operated and, frankly, how in the world they can offer food for such a low price.'

Read the whole article here.

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July 15, 2012

Texarkana State Line - more pics

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Texarkana State Line Found - Finally!


When DD1 was about 1 year old, husband and I visited Texarkana to find the state line that divides Texas and Arkansas. Unfortunately we were unable to find the state line then.

All praise be to Allah SWT, yesterday we brought DD1, DD2 and DS to visit the same place and we found the state line this time.

Last Thursday, my dear sister drove down from Ohio with her two kids to visit us. All praise be to Allah SWT they arrived safely. While she was here, she made kimchi, organized my kids' clothes, helped me to rearrange bedroom furniture and watched the Korean drama 'Secret Garden' with me. I am so thankful that we had the opportunity to talk, laugh and cry about our lives together.

On Friday morning, she and I drove our five kids to Benton, Arkansas. Along the way, we stopped by President Bill Clinton's hometown, Hope. Husband drove to meet us at the hotel after work.

My dear sister and her kids left on Saturday morning and arrived home in the evening. All praise be to Allah SWT she arrived there safely. I really admire her stamina to drive 11 hours straight from Arkansas to Ohio. She is an amazing and strong person, and I am blessed to have her as my sister.

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June 27, 2012

Video: Discovery Asia - Korea

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June 23, 2012

A simple gesture goes a long way

After watching several Korean dramas with husband during the last two weeks, I finally have the chance to get grocery at a Korean grocery store with DD1. She was quite excited to have the chance to visit the store too.

When I entered the store, I didn't see anyone at the register, so I decided to wait till we check out to greet the Korean cashier with "annyeong haseyo" which means "hello" in Korean.

I bought vegetables and Korean made spoon, fork and chopsticks for DD1 and DD2. The lady was quite surprised to hear me speak Korean when I saw her, and for a moment I thought I pronounced the words incorrectly.

Before we left the store, I thanked the Korean lady with the greeting "kamsahamida" and she looked happy to hear that. As we were leaving the store, she quickly handed me a roll of candy!

I am so relieved that I had the courage to speak Korean at the store because I was afraid that I would not say those words correctly. Allah SWT willing, I hope that this will show DD1 that as long as we are not afraid to try, we will be able to accomplish something that we can be proud of.

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June 05, 2012

Limbo Dancing Chickens

Have you seen a chicken performing a limbo dance?

Our three lovely ladies have been performing spectacular limbo dance moves to get onto the patio even though husband installed a fence around it. I have been wondering how they did it and finally I saw them in action yesterday.

Although husband keeps threatening to "send them to chicken heaven" for pooping on the patio, I am trying hard to convince him that the ladies need a cool place to hang out since we have been getting upper 90s degree days.

One of these days, I am going to take a video and show it to my sister so that she knows that my chickens have a new talent in addition to being fabulous singers.

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June 02, 2012

My baby is ready for first grade!

Yesterday, several teachers who formed the graduation committee at the school successfully organized the graduation ceremony at a local high school. It was well organized and the program schedule ran on time.

All praise be to Allah SWT, DD1 graduated from her kindergarten class.

I did not have the chance to see her receive her diploma on the stage because I was busy directing guests to the auditorium hall. Nevertheless, I am thankful to Allah SWT for granting her caring and dedicated teachers. Husband and I are both proud of her achievements. She has mastered most of the kindergarten skills through parents-teacher efforts and her own determination. Next year, she will be entering first grade. May Allah SWT guide us to help her become a better person and scholar.

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June 01, 2012

President Eisenhower's Birthplace

Last Saturday, husband and I brought the kiddos to see President Eisenhower's birthplace in Denison, Texas.

All praise be to Allah SWT, the tour guide started the tour at 1:50pm when we got there at 1:45pm. This is husband's first visit to a USA president's birthplace. Although DD1 does not understand the educational aspect of visiting this president's birth, I want her to see how people in the early 20th century lived simply lives in rural USA. When I was in school, I always wondered how social studies relate to our daily lives and the impact of historical events on the current society. To make social studies relevant and engaging to my kids, I want them to have personal experience and reflection on past and current issues through tours and hands-on learning.

We toured the bedroom where President Eisenhower was born, the parlor (living room), the dining room and kitchen on the first floor. Since the second story was not accessible by visitors, we toured the vegetable garden.

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May 27, 2012

Successful Fundraising

Last night, I volunteered at a fundraising dinner for the building expansion project while husband watched the kids at home.

All praise be to Allah SWT, the event ran smoothly and on time. About $80K was raised by the time it ended at 9pm. Here are some lessons that I learned from observing the event organizers.

Enthusiasm - The enthusiasm of all event organizers rubbed off on me positively. I felt energized and eager to get to my work area. I also felt that other volunteers and I were working together in an encouraging and productive way.

Willingness to trust in people's ability - No one was micromanaged throughout the event. The organizers trusted that people knew what they were doing and to put in their best efforts to manage their tasks well.

Challenge - If there is a more effective and efficient way to manage a task, then we were challenged to think about it and to follow through. Flexibility was definitely required to be able to come up with better procedures to get the same job done faster and accurately.

Although I was there at 2pm and stayed till 9pm, I did not feel exhausted a bit. With Allah SWT's blessing, I was able to play with DD1 and DD2 for one hour after I got home. Allah SWT willing, I hope to involve them in this type of fundraising activity when they get older.

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May 19, 2012

The best thing about a picture is...

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